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Christian Counselling Centre  

Levin  NZ

Providing a professional, accessible, affordable counselling service to the people of the Horowhenua

 

Healing the wounds of the broken hearted.

 

Approved Community Services Provider

Under S 403 of the Children & Young Persons & their Families Act 1989

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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STATISTICAL INFORMATION 

 

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SERVICE SUMMARY 2010

  Our Mission    Our Vision    Our Strategy    Area Serviced  Contents  Personnel  Supporters  History  Service Summary

Inputs    Students  Administration  Reputation  Facilities   Equipment   Funding  Sources of income  2005 - 2010

Outputs  Annual comparison chart  Presenting Issues   Outcomes

Clients story and client feedback

 

OUR MISSION

HEALING THE WOUNDS

OF THE BROKEN HEARTED

 

 

OUR VISION

 

To provide counselling, education and support based on Christian ethics and values, within a context of caring relationships, where change is encouraged and assisted in ways which confront barriers to personal growth, and may deepen an experience of God, and strengthen our community.

 

 

OUR STRATEGY

 

To provide affordable, accessible and professional services for….

 

·       Individuals, couples and families,

 

·       Adults, youth, and children

 

·       All cultures, faiths, gender,

 

·       A wide range of issues,

 

·       Therapy, education, support,

 

…..in a wide range of venues.

 

 

AREA SERVICED

The Centre provides services to the Horowhenua region from Himatangi in the North to Otaki in the South, (plus to a lesser degree, Kapiti and Palmerston North).

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CONTENTS

 

 

                                    Mission/Vision/Strategy                                        1

 

                              Contents                                                                 2

 

Personnel                                                              3

History                                                                    4

Service Summary                                              5

Inputs: Staff & students                              6

             Management                                             7

             Administration                                           7

             Board of Trustees                                    7

             Reputation                                                8       

             Facilities                                                    8

   Equipment                                                 8

   Funding                                                     9, 10

   Sources of Income chart                         10                 

Activities                                                                 11

Outputs                                                                   12

New client comparison chart                               13

Referrals & ethnicity                                             14

Outcomes                                                              15

Client Story                                                            16

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                             

Text Box: LEVIN CHRISTIAN CARE TRUST - trading as - CHRISTIAN COUNSELLING CENTRE

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Personnel

 

GOVERNANCE

          Levin Christian Care Trust

o   Malcolm Russell (Chair) CEO of Horowhenua Learning Centre

 

o   Jeremy Cooper      Partner of Coopers Law Office

 

o   Gillian Bell             Speech Language Therapist

 

o   Jane Eyles             Social Worker

 

o   Sandra Teal           Dispensary Technician

 

o   Debbie Gray           Independent Counsellor & Programme

  Coordinator Laidlaw College

 

o   Robert Nicholson   BNZ Business Partner

 

STAFF

          Management

 

o   Carol Parkinson     Practice Manager MSW – MANZASW

 

Counsellors

o   Jean Russell          Dip. Counselling – MNZAC

     

o   Di Pearce               Dip. Counselling – MNZCCA

 

o   Moira McCall-Corlett        Dip. Counselling – MNZCCA

 

Administration

 

o   Meryl Jenkinson    Receptionist

 

Supervised Practice (interns)

o   Samuel McCosh     Dip. Counselling in progress

     

o   Karl Palmer            Dip Counselling in progress

  

o   Felicity Sutherland Dip Counselling (graduated Nov 2010)

 

TREASURER          Bev Page               Diploma of Business Studies

 

INDEPENDENT ADVISOR

o   Graham Montford: Proprietor McDonald’s Family

                    Restaurant Levin

 

SUPPORTERS        For the past 20 years several Horowhenua Churches have provided on-going support in a variety of ways including representation on the Board of Trustees. They Include: Queen Street Chapel; Levin Baptist Church; AOG Levin; Catholic Presbytery; Levin Uniting Church; St Mary’s Anglican Church.

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Some of our history...

 History

  • The Christian Counselling Centre came into being because of a common heartfelt concern that four people had about the lack of counselling support available in the Horowhenua region.  After many discussions, Wade Webby (Engineer & Chaplain), Viv Webby (Businesswoman), Malcolm Russell (Teacher & Counsellor), and Bruce Honore (Businessman & Church leader), decided they needed to do something about it.

 

  • Consequently, the Counselling Centre opened in 1990 with one counsellor, Wade Webby, operating out of a small rear office in Viv Webby’s secretarial business (which was also the major financial provider).  Several volunteer workers also assisted with a variety of support roles that freed the counsellors to concentrate on their face to face counselling work.

 

  • At the beginning of 1995 Queen St Chapel took financial responsibility for the Centre, and took it through the transition from a small private practice to a community based service.  Governance of the Centre was placed in the hands of the ‘Levin Christian Care Trust’, an inter-denominational group set up specifically for the purpose (six churches are currently represented on the board). Today the Centre is a not-for-profit non-government agency with a reputation for discretion, professionalism and caring sensitivity.

 

  • In November 2007 founder and Manager Wade Webby retired due to ill health.  Wade’s calm and steady manner was a huge loss to the organisation.  Wade had worked tirelessly over his 17 years building CCC’s first-rate reputation both locally and nationally. 

 

  • The Centre has continued to grow and 18 years after the first tentative steps employed 7 part-time counsellors, including two trainees, a part-time receptionist and a full time manager/social worker.  Together they assist around 300 new people each year.

 

  • In 2008 the Centre engaged in an energetic and robust self-review of its management and governance systems and practices. As a result new procedures, policies, recording and review practices were formalised and became an ongoing pattern and focus of the board and management.

 

  • 2009 proved a challenging year as we rode through the darkest days of the global recession.  With reduced income we ran a leaner operation but continued to provide professional counselling to those in need in Horowhenua.

 

  • 2010 – WE MOVED!!!  After years of struggling with the limitations of the Oxford Street location, October 2010 saw us move into bigger and brighter premises on Queen Street. The new premises have a lift and overcome any disability barriers.  Abundant free parking and a professional appearance allow us to serve the community in a beautifully fresh and contemporary environment.

 

  

Service Summary

 

Although the fragile economic recovery continued to restrain our dreams of service expansion, the year was highlighted with the move into bigger and brighter premises.  Despite the insecurity around not being able to maintain current service provision levels due to funding cuts, the Counselling Centre has seen an increase in client numbers.  In a continuingly strained economic environment, families and individuals are finding it increasingly difficult to manage their lives.  Stress, depression, anxiety and alcohol issues were prevalent in our clients this year.  As people’s resilience has decreased, their vulnerability has grown causing a rise in people accessing the service seeking help for relationship issues in their home or work environments.

 

The move into centrally located bigger and brighter purpose-built premises was the highlight of the year.  This was a momentous occasion for the Centre. It was a culmination of several years worth of searching, effort and faith.    A  large open-plan office space was transformed into four high quality yet relaxing counselling rooms, reception area and offices. A successful Open Day, attended by staff, supporters of the Centre, the public, and MPs Nathan Guy and Darren Hughes, and Mayor Brendan Duffy, was held on the 30th of October.   It was a fantastic opportunity to recognise the entire community for their assistance in making this organisation a primary provider of critical social services in Horowhenua.  It was also an opportunity to pay tribute to the volunteers, staff and participants who have made this move possible. The rooms are a triumphant example of a community pulling together and tenacity. The move positions us for future expansion and co-location opportunities with other similar social services.  We continue to be proactive: we are innovatively and creatively developing a service that meets the needs of our present clients and what may be needed in the future.

 

Our financial limitations meant we were unable to employ extra staff to help with the increased clientele; however our two competent and willing students stepped up to take on heavier case loads which saw us meet the demand.  This volunteer arm of our service is highly valued by us and the students.  Students get to work in a professional, friendly and embracing team environment while they hone their skills and complete their placement requirements. 

 

Ongoing financial difficulties is a familiar story for us, however we continue to manage our resources efficiently and to demonstrate the worth of our service through positive client feedback and outcomes. Through the continued development of outcome based stewardship we strive to bring the “returns” or “results” that clients and stakeholders anticipate.  Through the persistent efforts of staff, management and board members we continue to fulfil our vision of providing caring, supportive, affordable and professional counselling undergirded by our Christian values and ethics.

 

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Inputs

 

These are the materials and resources that the Christian Counselling Centre uses in our programmes, activities and processes to serve clients. 

 

Staff:

 

Our staff was inspirational this year as they handled the transition into new premises.  They put in a strong and cohesive effort to minimise the effect of change on their clients.  At the same time they put in numerous hours packing, cleaning, unpacking, helping the construction of the new rooms and reconstructing rooms to an excellent level of presentation.

Counselling hours were up on 2009 as staff mobilised to meet the demand for services, particularly the upsurge mid-year.

 

  • Established and qualified staff Di Peace, Moira McCall-Corlett and Jean Russell were the backbone of our service. Their professionalism and specialist areas of care allow us to offer a comprehensive and reliable service.

 

  • Staff accumulated 1944.5 one-on-one counselling hours. This included the contribution of approximately 140 voluntary counselling hours by our paid staff.

 

  • Staff collectively attended to 234 new contracts which in real terms accounted for 255 new people.  Plus 15 clients returned from previous years.  This pattern of clients reconnecting with the service from time to time is encouraging as it is an excellent example of confidence in the service and the empowerment of the client to take responsibility for increasing their wellbeing.

 

  • Professional development opportunities were eagerly attended by staff including: NZCCA Conference and workshops in: attachment theory; strengths-based supervision; ethics in counselling; self-harm and youth; building youth resilience.

 

  • We farewelled accomplished counsellor Delwyn Crowther in February.

 

  • A staff retreat was held early in the year to develop team relationships and to take time to reflect on who we are and where we are going. Te reo and Maori tikanga training or experience was introduced to the team when Lethe Gaskin took us on a journey to discover our pepeha.  This was an excellent workshop which helped ground individuals in their heritage and what they bring from that to their personal and professional lives. By the end of the session Lethe had us sharing our pepeha with the group in te reo Maori, which was a new experience for a number of the group

 

  • In December a 50c per/hr wage increase was approved for employees.

 

 

Students:

 

Our volunteer students were an integral part of our team effort this year.

 

  • The three trainee counsellors accumulated 408 counselling hours

 

  • Samuel McCosh trainee student from Massey University resigned in July to take up a position in Raratonga.

 

  • Trainee counsellor Felicity Sutherland passed audit in November, successfully completing her Diploma of Counselling.

 

  • Trainee counsellor Karl Palmer will graduate in March 2011.

 

 

Management:

 

  • Successfully passed CYFS annual audit with only a few minor recommendations.

 

  • Networking opportunities were pursued through attending local HALT meetings, the HDC Youth Hui initiative, meetings with Work & Income and Child Youth & Family site managers as well as other local events.

 

  •  Practice Manager Carol Parkinson graduated with a Master in Social
    Work (with first class honours).

 

  • Annual staff assessments were undertaken in December.

 

  • Project managed the complex relationships and issues created in finding and creating new premises at 29 Queen Street Levin.

 

  • Successfully navigated clients and staff through the changes wrought by the move into new premises.

 

  • Strategically increased marketing through various advertising opportunities including new signage on outside of building and up stairwell.

 

  • Reviewed and updated our insurance policies.

 

Administration

 

  • Access to one-on-one IT training has updated and improved the office skills of our receptionist Meryl Jenkinson.

 

  • The continued update of our administrative systems has dramatically improved our data collection and statistics reporting operations.

 

  • No-shows continue to be minimal as the practice of texting and calling clients to remind them of upcoming appointments is maintained.

 

Board of Trustees:

 

Apart from their oversight responsibilities the focus for the Board this year was on successfully negotiating the acquisition of new premises. 

 

 

  • Colin Brown led a lively and healthy name change discussion meeting in April attended by staff, board and interested Friends of the Centre. Overall summary: as long as we hold to our mission, purpose and goal, and manage the risk transparently this would be a positive step forward and is supported by the majority of people canvassed.

 

  • AGM held 15th June at Horowhenua District Council was a successful time with an attendance of 23 people.  A 20th celebration cake was cut by Viv and Wade Webby. 

 

  • In July a long term contract was signed with Collis Blake for the rental of 1st floor Kent & Little Building 29 Queen Street Levin.

 

  • Approved minor changes to policies. Minimal time was spent on policies this year as they had been thoroughly reviewed and revised over the past 3 years.

 

  • Continued to ensure financial viability and oversight.

 

  • Through regular board meetings and contact with staff, reinforced and monitored the overall direction and wellbeing of the service.

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Reputation:

 

Horowhenua based: Nationally respected; acceptance, trust and endorsement of local social services, local schools, MP’s, and Government agencies; on and off site work; affordability; reputation for a quality service; alliance with national counselling training programmes.

 

 

Facilities: 

 

After many years of searching a new premises was sourced in a central location.  The move into the Kent & Little Building occurred in mid September.  This re-location was only possible due to a large number of volunteers putting in some extra hard yards.   The empty office space was transformed into 4 professional and comfortable counselling rooms, a welcoming reception area and relaxing staff spaces thanks to volunteer builders and supporters.  A successful Open Day held on the 30th of October was attended by approximately 60 people.  They were hugely impressed with the remarkably fresh and contemporary presentation of the counselling rooms and surrounding areas. Importantly, the new premises have a lift to aid clients’ access to our services. It is honouring to our clients to work with them in an environment that is pleasant, relaxing and professional. 

 

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Equipment:

 

Along with the move to bigger, brighter and better accessed premises, a revamp of the counselling rooms and reception has successfully been achieved through donations and skilled use of limited resources.

New counselling room and reception area décor has reshaped the image.

Free office equipment including desks, filing cabinets, whiteboards and chairs from BNZ helped add to the more professional image we have been developing. A computer suite was established thanks to a BNZ initiative called Remarkit Solutions who donated 3 pre-loved computers.

A new computer for reception, acquired with funding from the Horowhenua Community Trust, keeps us abreast of database and communication requirements of a modern small business enterprise. 

The team was very grateful for the new dishwasher which was donated to the Centre by the Crowther family at Delwyn’s farewell.

 

 

Funding:

 

Due to the continuing insecurity of income streams, we were extremely stretched for resources by September/October. In fact we had our lowest income for 6 years! We found that on a number of occasions during the year the funding process was not responsive to emerging needs. For instance, one major application didn’t deposit their grant (applied for in June) until January 2011 which was outside our financial year cut off date of 31 December and therefore did not alleviate our earlier crisis.

 

  • Income was down $34,000 on 2009
  • Funders were leaving their grants to later and later in the year straining our resources to critically low levels..
  • 18 Funding applications were filed to various Philanthropic and Community Trusts. 
  • Two Campaign Response Fund applications were entered, one of which was successful with a much needed grant of $30,000 +gst in December for ‘crises’ funding.  Unfortunately this was not direct credited until January so will not appear in our 2010 financial accounts.
  • 3 Philanthropic Trust and one Campaign Response Fund applications were declined during the year. 
  • Unfortunately a substantial loss of funding occurred in our Friends of the Centre scheme.  Several long-term generous funders have withdrawn funding as they struggle with the impact of the recession on their disposable income.  Their 2010 contribution was down 20% on 2009 donations.
  • One of our contracts is with EAP. Their client referrals increased by 58% on 2009, reflecting the distress being felt by employees across a variety of local and national businesses.
  • Just over $10,000 from our budget was spent on creating our new rooms.
  • Long-term underfunding of this service impacts our ability to:

a)    retain staff that have achieved a high level of professional expertise

b)    plan in the medium and long term

c)     build reserves

  • Government funding accounted for only 20% of our income; down 10%.

 

 

We continue to hold a crucial position in the community due to our affordability compared to other counselling services.  We work on a donation only basis which is essential in this low income community. 

 

  • The average client contribution is $12 per session
  • The actual cost of providing the service is $ 93 per hour

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SOURCES OF INCOME 2005-2010

  

Inc / Exp

2005

2006

2007

2008

2009

2010

Income

 

164,909

162,963

173,946

181,596

190,864

156,211

Expenditure

 

139,907

155,674

178,261

189,645

184,881

169,337

Difference

+25,002

+7,289.

- 4,315

-8,049

5,982

-13,126

 

 

 

 

 

Income Source

2005

2006

2007

2008

2009

2010

Community Support

45,477

33,745

33,019

30,326

27,482

21,855

Grants

69,812

60,262

62,750

52,500

56,375

67,612

Client Donations

20,581

20,506

22,980

25,501

16,384

16,959

Contracts

25,588

26,836

36,295

67,232

53,267

48,126

Other Income

1,074

21,614

18,902

6,037

37,356

1,659

Total

164,909

162,963

173,946

181,596

190,864

156,211

Contributing factors to our deficit:

 $10,000 spent on shift to new building

$ 34,500 received too late for December deadline but deposited 10th January 2011

 

 

Thankfully staff donated 140 volunteer hours to help meet the increased demand for services.

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Breaking news!

In mid December Child Youth & Family offered the Centre the option of moving onto a High Trust Contract in June 2011.  This new way of funding groups trusted enough by Government to fund to help families help themselves, is an exciting leading edge move forward for the Centre. Only trusted, viable services with a strong track record for providing quality services that communities need are to be contracted under this new funding scheme. 

  

Activities 

These are the activities or processes that the programme or service undertakes with the client in order to meet the client’s needs: that is, counselling. 

 

  • Two trainee counsellors from Laidlaw College, and one from Massey University, were supported as they completed their internship practice hours.  These volunteer students provide a vital service to our Centre and the community.

 

  • We have seen an increase in over 60’s attending counselling with a range of needs including grief, family and illness related emotional issues.

 

  • A youth focused project was initiated this year to meet the need of clients attending counselling aged between 15 – 20.

 

  • We continue to support children and their families through our specialist children’s counsellor.  One of our students discovered a passion for working with children and ably assisted our experienced children’s counsellor.

 

  • Children were either seen at their own school or at our premises.  This service to schools in the district is especially important and valued by local school principals.

 

  • Relationship and general counselling therapy continue to be well attended areas of need.

 

  • PHO counselling for mild to moderate mental health clients.

 

  • EAP counselling for employees linked to the nationwide Employment Assistance Programme.

 

  • Justice Department referrals, including adult diversion.

 

  • Other counselling work includes: sexual abuse; anger & violence prevention; parenting skills.

 

  • Professional Supervision for social service and health professionals

 

  • The Centre continues to provide support for people who are struggling with Mental Health issues such as: anxiety disorders; phobias; eating disorders; depression; drug & alcohol and other addictions.

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Outputs

 

These are the units of service regarding our programme or services.

 

Total number of new contracts: 234; an increase of 25 on 2009

           

36 new contracts in June 2010 was the highest ever monthly intake

 

2009

Jan

Feb

Mar

Apr

May

Jun

Jul

Aug

Sep

Oct

Nov

Dec

Monthly

8

20

28

18

18

24

11

17

19

13

19

13

YTD

8

28

56

  74

92

117

128

   145

164

177

196

209

People

    9

21

34

  22

28

30

16

23

20

15

28

13

 

 

2010

Jan

Feb

Mar

Apr

May

Jun

Jul

Aug

Sep

Oct

Nov

Dec

Monthly

17

24

  12

17

27

36

25

15

13

22

21

5

YTD

17

41

  53

    70

97

133

158

 173

186

208

 229

234

People

18

25

  12

19

30

41

31

15

14

23

22

   5

 

 

Total face-to-face counselling hours for the year: 1944.5 (up 211 on 2009)

 

  • 364 hours were delivered to children and/or their parents/caregivers

 

  • 108 hours were delivered to 18 youth.

 

  • 671 hours were delivered to individuals, couples and families responding to relationship/interpersonal issues

 

  •  439.5 hours were delivered to individuals requesting general counselling

 

  •  9 clients over 60 years of age accessed counselling

 

  • Oxygen project continued to support 6 long term clients (2 males, 4 females)

 

  • The PHO scheme supported 10 clients with mild to moderate mental health issues = 67.5 hrs.

 

  • 21 clients accessed our service through Court/Probation referrals including the adult diversion scheme = 102 hrs.

 

  • Only two clients were referred via the Child Youth & Family Partnered Response scheme.

 

  • EAP referred 58 clients for counselling = 192 hrs.

 

  • 16.5 hrs of Professional supervision provided - an increase of 15 hrs on 2009.

 

  • The average client attended 8.5 sessions

 

 

Total number new clients by category:

 

          Adults   209           60+   5          Youth  18         Children   22 =  254 people 

 

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Annual comparison chart:

 NEW CLIENTS ANNUALLY

 

YEAR

ADULT

YOUTH

CHILD

TOTAL

(Couns.)

GROUPS

TOTAL

(All)

1990 - 94

-

-

-

-

-

482  

1995

95

3

0

98

0

98

1996

128

11

10

149

33

182

1997

208

45

25

278

62

340

1998

251

39

41

331

73

404

1999

258

44

54

356

31

387

2000

190

25

38

253

34

287

2001

140

30

36

206

82

288

2002

245

18

12

275

70

345

2003

204

14

41

259

40

299

2004

187

22

16

225

41

266

2005

176

15

29

220

37

257

2006

235

32

39

306

0

306

2007

244

29

40

313

0

313

2008

251

21

36

308

0

308

2009

211

11

41

263

0

263

2010

214

18

22

254

0

254

Totals

3237

377

480

4094

503

4597

 

Although the number of children accessing services decreased in 2010 compared to 2009, the number of parents accessing services increased as parents sought help and skills to improve their family dynamics and behaviours.  This is a positive step for those struggling with violent or abusive parenting styles or attitudes.

 

98 Males and 156 females accessed services.  This is a high percentage of males compared to previous years.

 

Referrals                                                                            

 

   Self                                    84                                 

   GP                                       6                       

   EAP                                   58                       

   PHO                                   10                       

   Court/Probation                  21                       

   Schools                                5             

   Family member                    42            

   Other social services            26

   Other                                   2             

 

Collecting data on over 60’s and ethnicity were only introduced this year, so we have no reliable figures to compare them with.  However, we have noticed an increase in older persons accessing services. 60+ clients tend to remain in the service for longer periods of time compared to any other group. They average 20 sessions each.

 

Youth counselling is another growing area with 10 males and 8 females accessing services.

 

 

 

Ethnicity

 

NZ / European                            224

Maori                                          26

Other                                          04

 

10% of our clientele were Maori

 

 

Presenting issues summary

 We have seen a significant increase in client’s, particularly young people and older people, presenting with high anxiety and depression.  Although the majority self-refer, 25% of these clients admit that their GP’s have recommended they seek counselling for their depression and anxiety issues.  Many are finding that the economic recession has triggered instability causing negative thinking and behaviour leading to anger and violence.  Significant numbers of clients are presenting with anxiety induced stress related to their work, family and/or education environments.  They commonly feel worthless and lacking hope for their futures.  Parents presenting with high anxiety often impact negatively on family dynamics as fear around income stability and their future wears them down often leading to increased anger, tension, alcohol consumption and despair.

The other noticeable presenting issue is relationship issues.  The continued economic strain can be contributed to a number of these issues.  Alcohol and drug abuse are also contributing factors.

 

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Outcomes

 These are the actual impacts/benefits/changes for participants during or after our counselling services have been accessed.

 

Importantly for clients the move to new premises acutely improved access to our service: the lift removes the barrier of access for the elderly and disability sector of our community.

 

The following outcomes were registered verbally, observationally or in client goal sheets or evaluation forms. The overall and driving goal of counselling is to encourage change that improves the clients’ wellbeing or quality of life; this may also help them become a positive functioning responsible community asset.  Each client has different needs; nevertheless some of the predominant changes identified during counselling are listed below:

 

Client outcomes:

 

Increased capacity to cope with difficulties

Increased ability to maintain functioning in the face of stress

Increased level of security in everyday living

Increased social networks

Increased problem-solving skills

Increased tolerance of others’ difference

Increased communication skills

Increased understanding of parenting roles and responsibilities

Increased understanding of relationship dynamics

 

 

Achieved part-time employment for the first time in several years

Improved appearance

Improved self-esteem or self worth

Improved relationship with peers, whanau, or workmates

Improved care of children

Improved care of self

Improved understanding of emotional triggers

Improved attitude to: parents; authority figures; partner, children.

 

Less dependence on alcohol/drugs

Reduced crime

Decreased and/or overcome suicidal thoughts

Decreased periods of depression

Decreased stress levels

 

Anger understood, addressed, and managed more positively

Violence addressed and positive changes made

Reduction in violence 

 

 

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One clients’ story: (names and identifying information have been changed to protect the client:

 

  

          Jane is 38 years of age, she lives alone but is responsible for a disabled

 brother who lives nearby.  Jane came to us for help with an abusive

 relationship that was leaving her traumatised and severely anxious. 

Jane has a learning disability which slowed down her ability to process

information.  However, Jane was committed to learning to care for

herself and to change the way she was living her life.  Jane’s goal

was to “be stronger.” For Jane this would mean being able to take

care of herself better and to stand up to her abusive and controlling

friend.  As Jane built a trusting relationship with her counsellor she

became more aware of her strengths and her options.  As her confidence

and self-worth grew she began to take back control of her life.  Through

role plays she learnt some techniques to use to stand up for herself.  She began to see that she was important too and that she could manage her life again.  After 5 months of weekly sessions, Jane re-entered the work force

after 4 years of being on the sickness benefit.  This part-time work was

another boost for her self-esteem.  Noticeably, Jane began to dress more carefully; her social networks were increasing and most importantly her level of security increased dramatically.  From this more secure base she also increased her volunteer work in the community. At Jane’s final session she was a much happier and more confident person.  She had positive goals for her self and was looking forward to spending time with her brother over Christmas.

 

 

 

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Some client feedback

 

“I feel ready now to go onto once a month appointments – I am coping much better in my life”

 

“It’s amazing how different things are – things I’ve never thought about before”

 

“That’s why I keep coming: even though it hurts so much, I want things to be different

 

“It really helped a lot I know what to do now”

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